"Worth It" Friends
I'm suffering from a vacation hangover. I feel I should report that any consequent memory loss is simply due to sleep deprivation or old age. While the hubs headed to a Sr. High youth gathering, the rest of us ventured out to see friends for 25 hours of joyful Jesus-loving happy time.
My mom told me I was more adventurous than she used to be. Who just packs up their 4 kids by themselves to drive 3 hours to see friends for one night? Then we joked that it was really more a matter of survival than anything else.
But the truth is- they are worth it.
I pray you have "worth it" friends.
You can't truly define a "worth it" friend, but in the fashion of Mr. Foxworthy I'll give you some brief examples:
You Might Have a "Worth it" Friend if...
1. Your house is crazy busy and a total mess, but you shoot them a text or a phone call because they have been on your heart lately.
2. You realize you haven't talked to them in a couple months, but when you call them it's like no time has passed.
3. You don't have to shower, wear makeup, or change out of your pajamas to see them.
4. You can talk about the most disgusting aspects of health and children, really it's ok. Shoot- you probably even ask their medical opinion.
5. You can ask each other questions about pretty much anything- even those things that require real honesty.
6. You never judge- and you never feel judged- even when you don't do everything exactly alike.
7. You have no idea how dirty or clean each others' houses are because you are just so excited to be together!
8. You can search each others' kitchen cabinets, refrigerators, and drawers for anything you need.
9. You can laugh and cry together.
10. You make each other "better" people.
(Now share this list with ten other friends in the next 8.5 minutes or in 17 days your old 5th grade teacher's niece will receive a disturbing letter in the mail marked, "You are pre-approved!")
This isn't some sappy list to forward. It's just ten reasons I carted four kids halfway across the state to chill with this family.
Because I knew it would totally be worth it.
Maybe you see where I'm going with this.
Of course, Jesus is totally worth it, but that's not my point. Harsh much, Lauren? I didn't mean that to sound flippant. It's just that my real point is this:
We have a God that comes to us.
And He came because we are worth it.
Not in and of ourselves. It wasn't our worthiness that sent Him here- it was His.
He created us and watched as His blessed children traded His love for their own pride.
Then He watched it again. The Old Testament shows scene after scene of betrayal- all by humanity.
And the faithfulness of God.
Because He knew it would be worth it.
It would be worth the birth. The persecution. The abandonment. The betrayal. The death.
It would be worth the tired feet. The chapped skin. The aching muscles. The hunger. The fatigue.
It would be worth the dirty looks. The cutting words.
It would be worth the separation- the total separation from the Father.
It would be worth it because we would finally be together. The Bridegroom and His bride.
So He left it all behind, traveled from the throne of heaven and into His creation with nothing.
To offer Himself up and redeem us. To set the captives free.
But when the fullness of time had come, God sent forth his Son, born of a woman, born under the law, to redeem those who were under the law, so that we might receive adoption as sons. And because you are sons, God has sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, crying, "Abba, Father! So you are no longer a slave, but a son, and if a son, then an heir through God.
It's Thanksgiving and Christmas and Easter all wrapped up into one glorious holy day. One that we will be celebrating for all eternity.
As the next few days and weeks turn into one giant countdown of parties, presents, houseguests, and travels, may we be mindful of the One who truly is Worthy and who loves us beyond compare.